Today, I wanted to take a moment to share with you some thoughts that have been weighing heavily on my heart. It has been twelve years since I found myself confined to a wheelchair due to tuberculosis on the spine operation I did in India, and this journey has presented both incredible challenges and moments of unexpected strength.
Living with a Spinal Cord Injury has undoubtedly impacted every aspect of my life. Although I am grateful for the many things I have been fortunate enough to possess, such as amazing relationships and caring caregivers, I must admit that there are times when I find it hard to escape the feelings of frustration and despondency.
One of the greatest struggles I face daily is the inability to walk independently. It can be disheartening when something as simple as moving from one place to another becomes an insurmountable challenge. The feeling of disappointment when going out or returning home often weighs heavily on my spirit, as it serves as a constant reminder of the freedom I long for.
However, amid these struggles, I am immensely grateful for the steady support and understanding I receive from some friends and family members. Their acknowledgment of my existence and their efforts to include me in their lives is sincerely valued. Their presence serves as a reminder that my worth and contribution to the world extend beyond my physical limitations.
While it may feel overwhelming at times, it is essential for me to remind myself that this is just one chapter in the grand story of my life. Though my mobility may be different, my spirit and mind remain resilient, determined, and capable of so much more than simply maneuvering a wheelchair. There are dreams to chase, goals to pursue, and opportunities waiting to be seized.
I share all of this with you, not for sympathy or pity, but as an attempt to open up and nurture a deeper understanding between us. Each person’s perspective and experiences are unique, and by honestly expressing my thoughts and emotions, I hope to foster a more profound connection with those who matter to me.
As I continue this challenging journey, I kindly ask for your patience and support. Your friendship and understanding, regardless of physical limitations, are truly invaluable to me. Together, we can navigate the hurdles and embrace the victories that lie ahead.
To all those who have selflessly cared for me, I extend my deepest gratitude. May your compassion and kindness shield you and future generations from the pain experienced by the disabled community.
Thank you for taking the time to read this heartfelt message. Your presence in my life, whether physically or emotionally, makes a significant difference. Let us cherish the moments we share and embark on new adventures that defy any limitations that come our way.
Brain Not Legs!
Comr Yakubu Nazir Abdulhakeem